Most people could define family as a group consisting of parents and children living together in a household. Other people will go deeper and state that a family is not only a group of parents and children living together, but that there is more to create what it means a real family. A real family is created by the never ending love shared by different individuals and by the willingness of a group of people to give all they have for a member of their group. These two characteristics make bonds between members of a group inseparable and unbreakable, and at the same time are the key to create what can be define as a family.
People with different attitudes, traditions and different ways of living, interact everyday with other people that are different from how they are, to try to create a family. Many people do not stand being with a person they don’t like, but when they are in a place where they live together and are forced to interact with each other, they somehow get used to this person to the point of loving each other so much, that they will give their life for that person. A family is created by different types of people interacting every single day and spending time together in order to create unmemorable memories that will rest in the mind of the members of the group forever. Funny, sometimes embarrassing and humiliating memories, no matter how they are, they all bring happiness to the group and make the group grow as a whole and learn from what they have been through together.
When one of the members of the group is going throughout a difficult and painful situation, she/he starts feeling this continuing support from people she/he is just getting to know and barely understands the reason why she/he is receiving it from these people. This kind of support is not one that ends after the problem is solved but is rather one that is given throughout somebody’s entire life without lessening the amount of support given and rather increasing it day by day. A better explanation to understand this so called support is that this support pushes a member of the group to keep on going no matter what happens and helps him/her to become successful in everything they do.
Two parents join different styles of life together and take care of a group of children that will live with them for a long time. This care given by the parents is not easy; is the most loving care ever given to somebody, is the care that includes many responsibilities like guiding your children through the right path so they can become someone in life and achieve their goals. Two parents do all they can for their children to have an amazing life and enjoy every moment of it, and when things become hard, parents are there to give these children all the support they need because what they want the least in the whole world is to see their children suffer.
At the end, it could be said that this never ending love and the willingness to give it all for somebody that belongs to your group is what creates a real family.
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